Three's the charm

So I asked you guys what I should write my next post on. It was between sexcapades, more about me, and what I have coming up. I was looking for more of just one thing to write about so I could get a little bit more on topic with what I wrote about. But I guess we can just have a little bit longer of a post. But just because you guys asked, and I have a little bit of time. ;)

So as I'm sure every gay guy knows. Grindr is one of the easiest ways to meet other gays in the area around you. Whether for a date, friendship, or my personal favorite, to find a great fuck buddy. Since I've been in Florida it's been one of my most used apps. I guess one of the big parts of all my vacations recently have been sex, rough sex, and group sex. I've probably been with some of the hottest guys ever here in Florida. Personally, I think the sun and great weather helps sculpt them into the newest forms of Greek Gods. On top of that, the other app that I personally think is not as well recognized, Jack'd has allowed me to meet some of the hottest guys around the world. Clearly not in person, but the  skype sex has been just as great. A guy with an accent? Insta-boner. I'm going to share a few of my favorite recent conquests with you guys. Unfortunately I can't show their faces, but I think you'll get a good drift. 

This is just one of my favorite guys. You can see my two favorite parts of his body; his ass and his abs. I would put some more pictures up, but then it would just become a gallery of a bunch of random guys from all over the US that I would do very dirty things to. For example, I'm in the Charlotte Airport right now, and chatting with a few gorgeous guys that I wouldn't mind some quality cuddle time with. I do have to say though, it's awful having layovers because of this reason. The farthest things ever go is some dirty talk, and maybe we end up skyping when I get home. No bueno.

I also said I would let you guys know a little more about myself. This is always my favorite thing to talk about. I mean, honestly, who doesn't like talking about themselves? I guess I'm a bit of a wild card. I have really distinct music taste, as a few of the lovely ladies I ustreamed with a few days ago know. 

 

No one ever seems to know what Songza is. But I will say it's probably the number one app I would recommend downloading. I would say it's about a million times better than Pandora. Solely because it gives you different categories for things you would be doing at a certain time on any given day, and then a selection of your favorite types of music to go along with that. You basically choose from three categories and it never fails to disappoint. 

I'd hope that all of you know who these two artists are, but I won't judge if not. These are just the two I chose to kind of give a taste as to what I like. Definitely not the epitome of my taste, but a starter. If I brought Leagues, Javelin, or the Generationals into the conversation I feel like a lot of people would just be confused. Yes, that was my way of giving you guys some more names so you can get inside my head. ;)

I used to be a dancer, and I think that's where a lot of my music taste came from. We used to spend a solid fifteen to twenty hours a week in the studio between Ballet Tech, Ballet Choreo, Modern, Jazz, Contemporary, Musical Theatre, and so on and so on. But no matter what teacher we had or who the choreographer was we'd always listen to some upbeat Indie for the warm-up, stretch, and cool-down. Beyond that, a lot of times our final piece would be choreographed to an Indie song. Minus Jazz, and Musical Theatre of course.

When I first started dancing I started a little late, so I was definitely in the beginning groups for classes. But as you get to know me more you'll realize one thing about me, I never do anything small. If I go for something I go full force, and don't give up until I reach the point where I'm happy with what I've achieved. I went through rough patches all the time with dance because I hated being the one who knew the least, and didn't match up to other people my age. My Junior year of high school I kind of took on the challenge. I threw in an extra three hours a week in private lessons. An hour and a half of Ballet, and then forty-five minutes of Jazz, and Modern. I broke a toe at least once a month, and have the definition of dancers feet because of it. But over that year I made strides.

I'm gonna keep it at that for the about me section, but I'll pick up with that again next time. ;)

Now for the last thing everyone wanted to know. What I have coming up! As a lot of you know these past two months have been crazy travel wise. A week in Los Angeles, a couple days in New York city,  and a little bit of every where else as well. After all these travels I kind of needed a little down time. Which is kind of what this past week was. As of right now I don't have much scheduled. But I have a couple of things I never pictured happening. As of right now I've been interviewed for a book a couple of times, nothing too serious but just a few questions here and there. I won't use names, but she's absolutely amazing. She's been telling me a little bit about her idea for the book, and not that I'm the main character or anything of the sort, she's picking my brain on what it's like to be in the industry. On top of that I've been asked to submit a couple of photos for the cover of another book. Again, the characters not based off of me, but who wouldn't want to be on a book cover? The last thing that I know of for sure is my meeting tomorrow. I'm going to catch up with Christopher Giovanni about his company CGE&M. I'm not sure exactly where the meeting will lead, but I do know he manages reality TV stars, and Catalog models, hint hint. 

That's basically all I know of right now. But it's been an interesting trip so far. I hope you guys all come back by soon. I want to keep you guys up to date on this crazy life, and give you some insight on to what the world of adult entertainment is truly like!

XOXO,

- Aiden

Dominant? Wait what?

So as a proclaimed power bottom, with the endorsement of Jason Sparks, I have never seen myself as someone who would ever be in a quote-un-quote sole dominant top. Yet all of a sudden I've seen a new side of myself. I met a guy who quite honestly I thought would basically fuck my brains out until I begged him to stop. Yet, quite the opposite, he's strictly bottom, and likes guys who are five star tops to be his dominant fuck buddies.

As well all know, I am by no means this. I'm the kind of guy that would prefer to be plowed for hours with no questions asked/needed about their stamina. At first I was taken aback, because he's got an amazing body, and seems, compared to many others, at the very least vers, with some quite substantial topping skills.

I would feel awful showing his face, although I'm sure he wouldn't mind, because I'm still clearly working on this whole being in charge thing. But when we first met, started texting and quite honestly sexting, I thought he would want to fuck my brains out all the time.  On the contrary, he wanted rules and punishments for his misdeeds. Christian Grey much? 

Despite my lack of experience in the whole dom/kink category I feel like I've done fairly well. I'm not going to bring the kink stuff in just yet. Key word YET. I will say that despite my experience I've enjoyed every single second, and will continue to enjoy every second of it. I gotta say, as soon as I'm done with all of this, I'm going to go jack off to the multiple videos he had to send me tonight because of his rule breaking. Where's my ruler, because I feel like a naughty school teacher that wants to punish my gorgeous pupils. Oh, and by the way this gorgeous guy is older than I am. What can I control? Just about everything with him. Give me some advice on some more rules, and punishments. I know he'd love to see them publicly published. 

A couple more photos of this gorgeous guy. My favorites by the way. 

XOXO,

- Aiden

(^My new signature by the way^)

Shoot finished!

So this was supposed to post a few nights ago, but I must have accidentally hit save to drafts. Sorry but I promise if you read through the end will make it all worth it!

 

So after a phenomenal trip to San Francisco my first big time shoots done and over. I was blessed to shoot with Hot House this past few days working with the gorgeous Alex Andrews, being shot by porn star legend Christian Owen. I met a ton of amazing people including, but not limited to, Jimmy Durano, Jesse Colter, and Tony Buff. My few days in San Francisco turned out to be more than just a work trip. It turned into a mini vacation with work being the main priority.

I found out that the hotel I was at was basically a gay porn star mecca, and all of the gay porn models that are in San Francisco for shoots are all set up in the same hotel for their time in San Francisco. My first night was when I saw Jesse Colter walk in, and I had this idea that I could be shooting with him, and basically went crazy. Jesse has kind of always been the guy I was aiming to be. His success in porn is easy to see. Whether on Men.com, or Kinkmen.com he's made strides. Which I'm all about. He gave me a lot of advice on how to be successful, and I couldn't have asked for better advice.

I had met Tony Buff at the Black Party Expo a few weeks before we saw each other, but when he first came out I wasn't sure if it was him, so I kind of just scoped the situation out trying to figure out if it was really him. I was sitting in the smoking section with two British Lesbians, and Tony came down and kind of just jumped into the conversation. It went from small talk about our days, to a more meaningful conversation about the United States, and all of the different events going on. The whole stigma of porn stars being stupid? Definitely misleading. Tony has a degree in philosophy, and served as a marine, fighting for the US in the first war with Iraq. I learned a lot about things I'd never even contemplated before, and added a little bit from my background.

This is probably not one of the finest memories for the Obama administration, but last year I worked in one of their district offices in communications, I helped set up a majority of Obama's press conferences and speeches in Florida, helping with all press coverage of the election. After a six month stint with them, I moved on to work with Time Magazine for the Republican National Convention, sitting in the press box recording the speeches, as well as taking notes on different things that were happening. I was by no means in support of the Romney campaign but it was amazing seeing history be made right in front of my eyes. Romney will always be in history as the biggest mistake the Republican party has made. 

But back to my trip! I learned a lot about myself as a porn model, as well as more than a few tips on how to be successful in the adult entertainment industry. I'm finally back in Los Angeles, just taking a few day break before I go back to Tampa to get back in the flow of things. Time for the gym, and some tanning to try to get more camera ready.

I definitely didn't miss the traffic or the wait for the bags. But it's nice to finally be home. It was a long trip, but I definitely can't wait to get a full nights sleep, and actually have my bed to myself. I'll update you guys again in a few days about how things in Tampa are! 

XOXO,

- Aiden

UPDATED:

So since I accidentally hit save, and not publish, I've got to make it up for you. Here's a picture of my ass, and the dick that will be inside of it later tonight. ;)

Back In the Airport!

After only a few days in Tampa, I'm on my way back to LA. I'll be spending the night there and then tomorrow I fly to San Francisco for a shoot with Hot House. I'm excited to finally shoot with a big well known studio. It's been a bit since I've had any clients, so that's been a little relaxing. But my time in Tampa was mostly just spent putting furniture together, and getting everything here around for when I come back next time. Last night I went out with some friends here to one of the local bars GBar, and had a porn party where we watched my first scene that I shot with Jason Sparks Live.

It's definitely been a long week, and weekend. But I'm excited to get back into a studio and shoot some more scenes. I'm not sure who I'm shooting with or what the idea behind the scene is. But I'll be sure to let you all know as soon as I do. Hope you guys come back soon. There's a lot going on right now, and once it all pans out I can't wait to fill you all in. 

- Aiden

Love me or hate me, it's still an obsession.

Since the day I made my twitter and tumblr I've gotten a ton of mixed reviews. Whether it was the hate mail from anonymous people on Tumblr, or the fun loving tweets I got on twitter, people have been showing a concern for whatever I've been doing. I must say that it's both gratifying and draining hearing all of the mixed reviews. Either way though I'm going to keep doing what makes me happy.

Tumblr has been the main place where the negative images and connotations have come into play, but even on Twitter people have brought in their bad thoughts and have tried to put me down. Granted, it was a foreign language, so it was a little difficult to translate fully, but google translate's definitely been a major help. Overall the genera idea was that in their minds, I wasn't anywhere near attractive enough to be in gay porn.

Although I've gotten my fair share of hate mail, the amount of love I've received far surpasses that. Whether from friends, family, or even strangers I want to thank all of you for being there. Because without some praise, whether finite or infinite, no one can go on without feeling loved. Whether it's been twenty people or just one, knowing that someone gets the slightest bit of joy out of what I'm doing with my life makes it all worth it. There are times where I should be selfish, as is the case with anyone. However, just knowing that one person in the world finds my work as rewarding for themselves will keep going and persevere. Although many see it as insignificant and a profession for the inadequate, I enjoy my job, and knowing that other people enjoy it as well will just push me harder to succeed.

 

Input will forever and always be appreciated. Knowing that my family backs me up, as do my friends, makes all of this worth it. I'm happier than I've ever been and will continue to stay that way. I hope you guys come back again soon. I've got some major changes happening in my life right now, and I honestly can't wait to share my adventure with you all. I love you guys!

XOXO,

- Aiden